Lonely? Want a Pet?

When you live alone, sometimes you wish there was someone at home waiting for you. Seeing cute dogs or cats makes you think "Maybe I should get one?"

But wait! There are realistic things to consider before getting a pet.

1. Check Your Living Situation

Lease Agreement

  • Pet policy: Many apartments prohibit pets
  • Violations: Could mean eviction or losing deposit
  • Landlord approval: Get permission first

Space Issues

  • Studios are small - large pets struggle
  • Noise issues - barking dogs cause complaints
  • Odor management - smells spread quickly in small spaces

If your lease says "no pets," getting caught with one can actually get you evicted.

2. Time Reality

For Working People

  • Away from home 8-10 hours daily
  • Even longer with overtime or travel
  • Dogs can develop separation anxiety

Time Required

  • Dogs: Daily walks 1-2 times, playtime, training
  • Cats: More independent but still need attention
  • Cleaning: Daily fur cleanup and litter management

3. Cost Reality

Initial Costs

  • Adoption/purchase fee: Free to thousands
  • Supplies (crate, litter box, bowls): $100-300
  • First vet visit/vaccines: $100-200

Monthly Costs

  • Food: $30-100
  • Treats: $10-30
  • Litter/pads: $10-30
  • Toys, supplies: $10-20
  • Budget at least $50-200/month

Unexpected Costs

  • Vet bills: $50+ for visits, surgeries can be thousands
  • Pet insurance: $20-50/month
  • Pet sitting/boarding: $30-50/day when traveling

Pets aren't something you buy when you want and discard when inconvenient. It's a 10-20 year commitment.

4. Best Pets for Solo Dwellers

Recommended

  • Cats: Independent, no walks needed
  • Fish: Quiet, low-cost, easy care
  • Hamsters: Small space OK, shorter lifespan

Not Recommended

  • Large dogs: Need lots of space and time
  • Barky breeds: Neighbor complaints
  • Exotic animals: Require specialized knowledge

5. Alternatives

Try Before Committing

  • Foster: Temporarily house shelter animals
  • Pet sit for friends: Watch their pets while traveling
  • Volunteer: Help at animal shelters

Combat Loneliness Without Pets

  • Grow plants
  • Watch pet videos
  • Join hobbies and social groups

6. If You Decide to Get One

Preparation

  • Research before adopting (temperament, care needs)
  • Get supplies in advance
  • Find a vet beforehand
  • Arrange emergency pet care

Where to Adopt

  • Recommended: Shelters, rescue organizations
  • Caution: Avoid puppy mills and shady pet shops

7. Checklist

Before Getting a Pet

  • ☐ Lease allows pets
  • ☐ Can commit for 10+ years
  • ☐ Have $100+/month budget
  • ☐ Have daily time for care
  • ☐ Have backup care for travel

Wrap-up

Pets can ease loneliness, but getting one unprepared hurts both you and the animal. Think it through, and when you're ready, it won't be too late.

Next up, we'll cover seasonal living tips. Summer and winter need different approaches!

※ This article is based on personal experience.

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