Where does all my money go?

After I started living alone, I was shocked when I saw my first credit card statement. I thought I didn't spend much... but where did it all go?

That's when I realized: money disappears if you don't manage it. Here are my essential money management tips for solo living.

1. Know Your Situation

Track Income/Expenses

First, understand your current situation:

  • Income: After-tax salary, side income, etc.
  • Fixed expenses: Rent, utilities, phone, insurance, etc.
  • Variable expenses: Food, transport, shopping, etc.

Average Solo Living Expenses (Reference)

CategoryAmount
Rent$800-1,500
Utilities$100-200
Phone/Internet$50-100
Food$300-500
Transport$100-200
Others$100-300
Total$1,450-2,800

2. Create a Budget

The 50/30/20 Rule

Simple budget guideline:

  • 50%: Needs (rent, utilities, food, transport)
  • 30%: Wants (dining out, shopping, hobbies)
  • 20%: Savings/Investments

If 20% savings is hard, start with 10%. That's 100 times better than 0%.

Category Budgets

Set category limits at the start of each month:

  • Food: $400
  • Transport: $150
  • Shopping: $100
  • Entertainment: $100

3. Track Your Spending

Why Bother?

  • See where money actually goes
  • Spot unnecessary spending
  • Helps change habits

Easy Ways to Track

  • Apps: Budget apps with auto-categorization
  • Card statements: Review monthly in banking app
  • Keep it simple: Even just tracking big expenses helps

4. Saving Tips

Cut Food Costs

  • Reduce delivery orders (delivery fees add up)
  • Shop during discount hours at grocery stores
  • Meal prep (batch cooking)

Audit Subscriptions

  • Cancel unused subscriptions
  • Consolidate similar services
  • Annual plans are usually cheaper than monthly

Avoid Impulse Buying

  • Add to cart and wait 3 days
  • Ask: "Would my life suffer without this?"
  • Interest-free installments are still spending

5. Start Saving

Automate Savings

  • Set up auto-transfer on payday
  • Keep savings in separate account
  • Treat it as money that doesn't exist

Build Emergency Fund

  • Goal: 3 months of living expenses
  • For unexpected illness or situations
  • Start small but start now

Save $100/month and you'll have $1,200 in a year. Starting is half the battle!

6. Bad Habits to Avoid

  • Credit card minimum payments: Interest explosion, avoid at all costs
  • Cash advances: Only for true emergencies, not habitually
  • Reckless installments: Total ends up costing more
  • Borrowing to repay debt: Start of a vicious cycle

7. Money Management Checklist

Start of Month

  • ☐ Set this month's budget
  • ☐ Verify auto-savings transfer
  • ☐ Check recurring payments

End of Month

  • ☐ Review spending
  • ☐ Check budget overruns
  • ☐ Adjust next month's plan

Wrap-up

Money management is a habit. It's annoying at first, but once you get used to it, it gets easier. The key is not perfection - it's starting.

Next up, we'll cover what to do when you're sick. Being sick while living alone is really tough...

※ This article is based on personal experience. Consult a financial advisor for professional advice.

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