Working all day, packages coming all day...

If you work during the day, receiving packages is a real challenge. I've had packages marked as delivered when I wasn't home, and some even got lost. Really frustrating when your building doesn't have a concierge.

After a year of living alone, here are my delivery survival tips.

1. Solutions for Missed Deliveries

Option 1: Concierge/Front Desk

  • If your building has one, set it as default
  • Add delivery note: "Please leave with concierge"
  • Pick up after work

Option 2: Parcel Lockers

  • Many apartments have smart lockers now
  • You get a code via text/app
  • 24/7 pickup available

Option 3: Leave at Door

  • Add note: "Safe to leave at door"
  • Not recommended for expensive items - theft risk
  • Request delivery photo as proof

Option 4: Pickup Points

  • Some carriers offer pickup at local stores
  • Select pickup option when ordering
  • Collect during store hours

I mainly use concierge + parcel lockers combo. Door delivery is risky for lost packages...

2. Using Delivery Notes Effectively

Good Delivery Notes

  • "Please leave with building concierge, Apt #XXX"
  • "If not home, leave at door. Photo please"
  • "Use parcel locker if available"
  • "Please call before delivery (XXX-XXX-XXXX)"

Safety Tips

  • Don't write "lives alone" or "single person" on address
  • Consider using initials instead of full name

3. Food Delivery Tips

Single Portion Ordering

  • Minimum orders: Sometimes delivery fee costs more than food
  • Tip: Order enough for next meal too
  • Discounts: Use first-order deals and coupons

Storing Leftovers

  • Refrigerate if not eating immediately
  • Noodles get soggy - eat those fast
  • Reheat properly next day

Using Delivery Apps

  • Compare prices across multiple apps
  • Consider pickup if there's a discount
  • Check reviews carefully (focus on photo reviews)

4. Extended Absence

When Traveling

  • Reschedule expected deliveries
  • Pause subscription boxes
  • Ask trusted person to collect important packages

5. Safe Package Receiving

Don't Reveal You Live Alone

  • Use initials or gender-neutral names
  • When asked, imply someone else will receive
  • Avoid late-night deliveries

Contactless Delivery

  • Prefer "leave at door" option
  • Use intercom only, don't open door
  • Wait for driver to leave before collecting

Safety first! Especially at night, verify it's actually a delivery person.

6. Smart Shopping

Online Shopping Tips

  • Free shipping: Don't buy unnecessary items just to hit free shipping
  • Subscriptions: Subscribe & save for regular essentials
  • Reviews: Always check verified purchase reviews

Early Morning Delivery

  • Great for fresh groceries
  • Collect before work
  • Be careful with frozen items in summer

7. Checklist

When Ordering

  • ☐ Write detailed delivery instructions
  • ☐ Set backup delivery location
  • ☐ Confirm contact number

Food Delivery

  • ☐ Compare prices across apps
  • ☐ Check for coupons/deals
  • ☐ Read reviews

Wrap-up

When you live alone, deliveries are a lifeline. Use them well and life is convenient - manage poorly and you'll lose packages and money. The key is good delivery notes!

Next up, we'll cover staying safe when living alone. Essential security tips for solo dwellers!

※ This article is based on personal experience and situations may vary.

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